KINKY KIDNAP

Consent to be kidnapped
• Consent is everything: It is all about consent and normally the consideration of a submissive’s needs, and wanting to be in a D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationship, even a short-term one. Being a Dominant is not about just taking what you wanted from someone and not worrying about whether they come back or not or what they think about the experience. It has to do with consent and if there is no consent, then these is abuse and assault, which is criminal. 

• Consent matters because it’s the consent, coupled with the safe words that bring play to a stop, that allows play, that allows us to push edges, take risks, and enter uncharted territory. The consent allows a general permission to do what would otherwise be criminal assault and sexual assault and the safe word allows us to play at the edges where consent may not have been expressly given or where the edge of consent has been reached and the time might be right to push the boundaries – without the Safe word, you couldn’t do this.

 

The Abduction
• This is where the “victim” is abducted, typically in a van and driven to the Event. She’ll be hooded and handcuffed and once in the closed van she’ll have her hands tied above her head and her legs tied apart. In most cases victims will be stripped to underwear (bra and pants). This starts the feeling of vulnerability essential for an effective scene. In most cases we prefer to abduct the victim and their friend as it reduces abject panic attacks.


Do you drive tied up?: Due to Health and safety issues, we don’t drive far like this (usually its around a car park or back roads). If we have to drive far then she’ll be taken down bound and trussed in the back of the van. At no time are victims left alone for safety reasons.
Hooded & Gagged: At all times. There is a safe signal. This is normal. Anyone who is claustrophobic is may find this difficult and we need to know in advance, as we do if they have heart conditions, breathing conditions (Inc asthma etc) – if they’re on (possibly gagged).


If stripped to pants and bra, what happens next?: In some cases where the event is secluded, then the “victims” who have been stripped to their bra and pants and made to walk blindfold into the new venue. We can do hotels but this is usually by arrangement and using the back doors to avoid problems with other residents. Most hotels understand Hen Nights and are accommodating).


Is there sexual contact in the van?: Not usually. Usually during the abduction, there will be minor contact such as hands run down thighs or the waist as the “victims” are stripped to bra and panties. This is to enhance the sexual element later on but does not amount to any further contact.


What if one of the victims wants to pee? If the victim needs to pee during the trip, they will be stopped in a secluded truckstop, or a secluded field entrance, or a little known forest car-park or even a dogging area and taken out of the van blindfolded, her pants will be removed/dropped and she’ll be allowed to pee and then put back in the van.

• Note: There are issues of CCTV visibility and abduction areas used need to avoid these to avoid police being unnecessarily called.
Cameras and phones are controlled by Master so that secret photos cannot be taken. This is to ensure YOUR privacy.
• This is where the “victim” is abducted, typically in a van and driven to the Event. She’ll be hooded and handcuffed and once in the closed van she’ll have her hands tied above her head and her legs tied apart. In most cases victims will be stripped to underwear (bra and pants). This starts the feeling of vulnerability essential for an effective scene. In most cases we prefer to abduct the victim and their friend as it reduces abject panic attacks.

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