Female Brat Training (Under 23)

For a female in the household of others

 Most Brats suffer from one thing only, A profound lack of discipline and also crave one thing, profound clear and severe discipline. Brats stem from a system that tells us that children are ill, sick, infested with the seeds of diseases and syndromes like intermittent explosive disorder, when in fact, they are having tantrums and need to be disciplined by strong parents or quasi-parents who love them.

Brat – A bottom who enjoys struggling against control or challenging the top. Brattiness has a wide spectrum from the playful ‘uppity bottom’ to the smart-ass masochist (which see). Some brats are ‘testing’ their dominant, others have a desire to be ‘conquered and tamed,’ while some simply do not wish to be controlled. [see Smart-ass masochist]

BRAT TRAINING  Under 21: For someone other than Master or to cure an unruly female in another BDSM family 

 Training a slave in obedience can be an ongoing and lengthy process depending on the slave and her Master, but the real problem is finding a sub in the first place.


  • This will start as a session taking place over part of a day (usually just before lunch and continuing until 8am the next day). 
  • The sub must have filled in the Checklist on the site’s homepage
  • The sub is not allowed any drink or anything to eat on the day of the meeting. Master will provide any food and water. 
  • The sub must notify Master of any allergies.
  • This is typically a sub who is lippy and who misbehaves – possibly refusing to be respectful and possibly wearing wholly inappropriate behaviour.
  • The sub will agree at the outset to stay in the premises until 8am the next day and to be held, if necessary against her will, although the sub will always have the opportunity to use the safe word “RED”. After “RED” the sub will be asked what the problem is and it can then end the session when it will be allowed to leave. No further sessions will be scheduled if a session is ended early. (This agreement will be signed and the RED safeword explained together with the consequences.
  • The Sub will then be inspected as is normal for Master’s initial inspection
  • The Sub will then be taken through the BRAT REPORT 
    • Any dissent or abuse or foul or inappropriate language will be penalised by use of Red, Blue or Green cards at Master’s discretion (applied on the basis of the severity of the offence).
    • Attitudes and behaviour in the  SECOND SESSION. 

      • This will usually be over a long weekend or equivalent (Three days and nights).
      • All of the above may apply unless contradicted.
      • Food during this period will be at the discretion of the Master and subject to behaviour and submission
      • At least 1 litre of water will be provided a day. At Master’s discretion this may be required to be drunk at a single session.
      • Where the sub is reported for inappropriate sexual dress in the first meeting and this has been re-reported, the sub may be taken to appropriate areas (such as known dogging areas) wearing the same (subject to Master’s discretion on knickers). It may be subject stranger groping (or where forced sex has been agreed), it may be subject to forced stranger sex where Master’s sole role is to ensure use of condoms has occurred. Number and frequency of forced sex sessions is at the discretion of Master.


      • This will be at least a week and may involve the other Master or Mistress
      • All of the above may apply unless contradicted.
      • Every aspect of the subs behaviour will be controlled and Monitored, what she wears, when she gets up, when she pees, she will be fed and not allowed to feed herself, she will be washed by Master and may be given cold baths as punishments, she will be accompanied at all times when outside and all her electronic communication will be monitored and she will be told what to reply. This is the first stage of complete control. If the bratty behaviour arises, Master will step in to punish sub.

      Humiliations and Punishments listed elsewhere on the site (See Homepage Index) including 

      Time outs (dressed or in undies/naked etc. or whatever way Daddy sees fit at the time)

      • Corner time
      • Groundings
      • Writing lines and or sentences
      • Writing Essays
      • Spankings
      • Loss of things enjoyed for certain amounts of time. (i.e certain websites,games,internet time,shows,movies,toys,playtime with Daddy…etc.)
      • Forced Participation in sex video chat (not under 18s due to child porn laws)
      • Odd chores or assignments
      • Potty training or substitution of toilet by cat tray (very good for messy bedroom training)
      • candle wax
      • Wash mouth out with washing up liquid soap (being lippy)
      • Kneel them on rice in a corner facing the wall and have them be silent for a period of time. If the move put them back in place without a word and reset the clock.
      • Keep a detailed diary of every thought

      Bratty Examples

      • In the middle of spanking, start yawning and snoring.
      • While you are waiting for Master to finish spanking, start grading him on each stroke on scale of 0 to 10.
      • Put sugar in the coffee
      • Responding to Make me a coffee by making it but not bringing it to Master
      • When told to Behave, responding by  “I am behaving ….badly”
      • Starting a sentence with “You said….” 


      BRAT TRAINING Under 21 For a female in the household of others (Not intended for Master) (Part 2)