Punishment Cards

Punishment: Punishment Cards

One of the things that I have successfully used over many years is the concept of the punishment card. In fact there are two sets that I typically use. They are bought as blank playing cards (52) on ebay and come with varying colours of card backs, usually red or blue.

It is always important to gear the punishment to the infraction. Let the punishment fit the crime. When a minor infraction gets a major punishment, you are sending the wrong signal. Try to administer punishment as closely as possible to the time of the infraction. In this way the sub/slave will not only be properly and predictably disciplined, but will also respect his/her Dominant. Never let a punishment cause injury. Never, ever use a hard limit as a punishment. And, finally, always start the punishment with a lecture/explanation.

There is a debate as to whether punishment sessions should have safe words. Some Masters/Doms/Dommes allow them, others do not. It is a matter of preference, style, how well the Dominant knows the submissive and, of course, how experienced the Dominant is. Those Dominants who do not allow safe words should always err on the side of safety. My feeling is that in the beginning of a D/s relationship, use safe words all the time – in play and in punishment. As should all novice Dominants. As the Dominant?s knowledge of the submissive – and as the submissive’s trust in the Dominant grows – safe words can be done away with. Carefully.

MEDIUM PUNISHMEN (Blue Backs)

  1. Eat from a bowl
  2. wax play on the buttocks
  3. wax play on the breasts
  4. butt plug with a ponytail
  5. washing mouth out with soap
  6. baby pacifier in public
  7. act as an object such as a foot stool, coffee table
  8. Remove their right to use furniture. They must kneel on the floor next to you, sleep on the floor at night, etc.
  9. Wear a collar for three days whenever they are in the house
  10. The next time an unaware family member calls, make them masturbate and cum without moaning or in any way tipping off their relative
  11. Their speaking privileges are revoked for the rest of the day. They may only signal their needs with their hands and sounds, as a toddler would do. 
  12. Over the knee spanking with a stingy implement (cane, thin crop, switch, etc) – 20 lashes. Sub must count out each strike and ask for another.
  13. Make them wear nipple clamps and guide them through the house behind you, pulling them by the chain of the clamps. (use Clover Clamps because pulling on Clover Clamps will tighten the pinch.
  14. take a rubber ruler, bend it, and release it so it slaps their genitals 10 times. They’re not good enough for you to spank the
  15. After a stern spanking, make them kneel or stand in the corner for 15 minutes near the front door. They are to stay in this position even if someone comes to the door.
  16. cum in their underwear or panties, make them put them back on and continue with their day
  17. Pair of chopsticks, put the sticks above and below the nipples and rubber-band them together at the ends.
  18. Tie them to a bed and use a Hitachi Magic Wand on them, for forced orgasms. If they get too loud, gag them
  19. Have them enter into a squatting position with a heavily-lubricated butt plug in place. They must stay in this position for 5 minutes without allowing the plug to fall out. If it does, they get 10 firm smacks on each ass cheek, before attempting the squatting again.
  20. Insert a small-to-medium size ice cube into their pussy or anus but only for a few minutes at a time. (NB: Prolonged ice exposure could cause damage- ensure that you have non-waterbased lube so ice does not stick to vagina inside.) You could also soak a glass dildo in cold water/frozen and use that on their holes.
  21. hog tie cuff set and duct tape before being laid to rest in the bath tub (Do not leave unattended)
  22. stinging nettle to X part of the body
  23. No hot showers for a week. Cold water only to wash.
  24. kneel on rice or dried peas for X minutes (usually 5-15mins)
  25. Take away cell phone for awhile.
  26. No Social Media for a day
  27. Litter boxing
  28. eat with childrens cutlery in public
  29. masturbation to the brink of orgasm, with no release
  30. have food cut up like a child in public
  31. Cook finger food and she eats with her hands tied behind her for awhile.
  32. If consensual company is visiting, make them masturbate, but not orgasm, in the middle of the room for all to see.
  33. If consensual company is visiting, every body enters the bathroom if sub wants to pee.
  34. If consensual company is visiting, every body enters the bathroom and sub must pee standing in bath/shower for all to see
  35. Urinate on them while they are in a kneeling position. Then have them clean up
  36. Sub must pose for a photo shoot in any ways the master wants
  37. Sub must pose for a photo shoot in any ways the master wants and image posted on internet
  38. Their speaking privileges are revoked for the rest of the day. They may only signal their needs with their hands and sounds, as a toddler would do.
  39. Sub must perform household cleaning with a butt plug in place. If it falls out, choose another punishment each tim
  40. If there is more than one slave/submissive in the house, the punished one must help prepare the other subs/slaves for your use and also harden your cock/prepare your pussy
  41. Make them write you a letter stating what they did wrong, how it made you feel, and how they will fix it next time.
  42. Internet Restriction (variable timelengths)
  43. Slut tights in public
  44. Cold bath
  45. Dark room, handcuffed in deprivation hood – (you can’t tell whether its 20 minute or 2 hours)
  46. Tie their hands behind their back and have them kneel with knees spread naked in front of you while you read or watch TV, occasionally nudging their genitals with your shoes.
  47. Place clothes-pins (clothes pegs)  on their nipples for 15 minutes.
  48. Put their panties in side their pussy, make them masturbate and orgasm. When they\’re finished, make them put those same panties in their mouth for 30 minutes.
  49. Order them to bring themselves to the edge of orgasm and stay there until you give them permission. When you give the command, they must cum within 30 seconds or they will be punished or not allowed to cum at all that day
  50. Make them serve your friends when they come over and prohibit them from making eye contact. If they were extra bad, make them do this wearing a very short skirt with no underwear.
  51. They must act as an object such as a foot stool, coffee table, etc.
  52. Stand in the corner but holding a coin against one of the walls with their nose. If it falls, select another punishment.
  53. Make them go to the grocery store and buy the largest cucumber they can find and a bottle of lube.
  54. Tie them in a chair with their knees pulled up to their shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
  55. Chain them to a Swiffer or broom by a collar and a chain that’s just too short to stand comfortably while swiffering. Have them clean the kitchen to your satisfaction while they’re chained up.
  56. 1 hour gym or  run an errand in public wearing no underwear with ben wa balls in place.
  57. Pick up twenty thumbtacks using only their breasts or ass, then spread rubbing alcohol on their breasts or ass.
  58. When they want to eat, make them cum in their own food before they can eat their meal.
  59. insert a chocolate penis into the subs vagina and make the other sub lick it out when melted (Then make her douche the vagina so she doesn’t get sugar The sub is not permitted to eat with the Dominant.
  60. The sub is not permitted to walk upright, and must crawl.
  61. The sub is not permitted to go nude, and must wear big baggy, unflattering clothing.
  62. Place clothespins or clamps on the sub’s lips or tongue.
  63. Wash out subs mouth with soap for profane language and swearing in front of Master
  64. The sub must sit on his or her bed in the dark and not allowed to leave the bed, until the Dominant gives them permission, they may not fall asleep.
  65. The sub must sit in a small dark box
  66. A gag or tape is placed on the sub’s mouth. (Gaffer tape is very good and should be removed slowly or quickly depending on pain level desired – slow is more painful.
  67. The sub must wear a sign stating “I am Bad” and tell anyone who asks why they are wearing the sign, then ask the individual to sign their sign.
  68. The sub must wear a t-shirt in public stating “I have been a bad girl and tell anyone who asks why they are wearing the sign, then ask the individual to sign their sign.
  69. The sub must wear a t-shirt in public stating “I have been a bad slave girl and tell anyone who asks why they are wearing the sign, then ask the individual to sign their sign.
  70. The sub is not permitted to smoke, if applicable.
  71. The sub is not permitted to watch TV.
  72. The sub is not permitted to use the computer.
  73. The sub must watch as another sub serves the Dominant, while they themselves are not allowed this privilege.
  74. The sub is not permitted to have sex.
  75. masterbate using corn on the cob
  76. use a potty to pee in in front of friends
  77. Wearing a vibrating  plug, with the controls in Master’s pocket.
  78. hand the controls of the vibrating plug, to another person whilst Master goes to the toilet
  79. Being forced to masturbate beneath the table cloth while at a restaurant
  80. wear a pacifier in public
  81. Having to show another person what you are wearing beneath the raincoat or cape
  82. One hand is cuffed to the chair or table when you are eating
  83. public spanking
  84. go for coffee with a vibrator sticking out of  her pocket
  85. Make her pee herself in public (best to use light pants that really go dark when wet) — grocery stores and parks are ideal. 
  86. Have her buttocks snapped with an elastic band for 5 minutes
  87. Suck or lick everyone present (in non-vanilla settings)
  88. If Lippy: Place clothespins or clamps on the sub’s lips or tongue
  89. Wash out subs mouth with soap for profane language and swearing in front of Master
  90. The sub is not permitted to walk upright, and must crawl.
  91. The sub is not permitted to eat with the Dominant, but must eat from a plate on the floor (particualrly good in public)
  92. The sub is not permitted to watch TV.
  93. The sub is not permitted to use the computer.
  94. The sub must watch as another sub serves the Dominant, while they themselves are not allowed this privilege.
  95. The sub is not permitted to have sex for  set period.

MORE SEVERE PUNISHMENT (Red Backs)

100. Gang Forced Sex (Consensual) Rape
101. Withdrawal of Orgasm for a month or more
102. Horse size dildo insertion
103. Make your sub into a “human sex doll” by tying them into a sexually available position. While in this position, they will be made available to your every desire. You can fuck any of their holes however you wish (unless told otherwise – for example “Don’t fuck my asshole can be written on their back in marker pen), while also being free to give pain and inflict whatever humiliation you choose. Obey all safety and blood flow precautions, as well as appropriate level of consent! You do not get to ignore safe words!
104. take sub picture doing something sexual and send to parents/sibling as if sending to someone else (so it seems to receiver as if sent by mistake)
105. Shave pubic hair in company
106: For Tardiness: The sub must carry a large clock around with them at all times…this is very effective against tardiness.
107: The sub  must wear big baggy, unflattering clothing in public
108: The sub must dress like a hooker to go shopping.
109: The sub must sit in a small dark box (Beware, in a silent arena, it is impossible to identify time and this can have a material impact quite quickly)
110: A gag or tape is placed on the sub’s mouth. very good in public. (Gaffer tape is very good and should be removed slowly or quickly depending on pain level desired – slow is more painful.
111:The sub must sit on his or her bed in the dark and not allowed to leave the bed, until the Dominant gives them permission, they may not fall asleep.
112: The sub must wear a sign stating “I am Bad” and tell anyone who asks why they are wearing the sign, then ask the individual to sign their sign “I agree {Name}”.
113: The sub must wear a t-shirt in public stating “I have been a bad girl” and tell anyone who asks why they are wearing the sign, then ask the individual to sign their sign.
113: The sub must wear a t-shirt in public stating “I have been a bad girl and will be spanked later”  and tell anyone who asks why they are wearing the t-shirt.
114: The sub must wear a t-shirt in public stating “I have been a bad girl and will be spanked later”  and tell anyone who asks why the’re wearing the t-shirt “I am slutty all the time, I love sex and have no knickers on”.
115: The sub must wear a t-shirt in public stating “I am Master’s sex slave”
116: The sub must stand naked in the window facing the road for 30 mins

NB: Punishment often involves pain and many submissives enjoy pain. Indeed, some will manipulate deliberately so they can be “punished.” This is why I strongly recommend that pain not be used as punishment.”

Rules:

  1. Never forgive infidelity unless you have given prior permission – infidelity – even minor stuff exhibits a lack of respect for Master and therefore is punishable by Master firing the sub so whe has to find a new Master.
    2. Never punish when you are angry. Stop and take a little time and think, don’t lash out or do anything rashly.
    3. Make sure the punishment fits the crime. Do not over punish and do not lightly tap the person on the wrist and say “Bad!” If you are going to punish at all, make sure that it will leave a lasting effect.
    4. Do not punish without education. When you punish make sure the individual knows what he or she has done, and what behaviors can be changed to meet your satisfaction, otherwise the punishment is useless.
    5. punishment should be done in a timely manner. If you plan on waiting for more than a few minutes to punish make sure the submissive/slave writes down the infraction and understands that punishment will be taken care of later. Making an individual wait can be used as part of the full punishment as well. However make sure that when you do punish that you have the submissive/slave reads or talks about the original transgression and that they are aware of why they are being punished.
    6. Never cross limits or boundaries. Always respect limits and fears or phobias even when punishing. If someone is claustrophobic do not lock him or her in a closet as punishment, the mental trauma would far out way the transgression.
    7. once a punishment is over it is over. Do not continuously hold an action against the submissive/slave and do not bring it up later, once punishment has been given the incident should be forgiven and dropped.
    8. Do no punish unjustly. If you don’t know for 100% that the submissive/slave has committed the infraction do not punish him or her.
    9. Never be afraid to say I am sorry as a Master. Punishment is not meant to be pleasurable to either the submissive/slave or to the one that inflicts the punishment, when you know you have hurt someone it is acceptable to say I am sorry. Unless you have hurt them in a way that was not intended, make sure that the individual knows that you are not sorry about what you did, but you are sorry that you had to do it.

REMEMBER:  From time to time a submissive/slave will do something that will disappoint his or her Dominant or they will act in a manner that is unsatisfactory. Submissives/slaves are still human and therefore they are not perfect and sometimes mistakes happen. It is always unpleasant to punish someone you love, but if punishment is not done then you are doing them a far greater injustice. Punishment is an accepted responsibility of any Dominant and must be done, but it should be done for the right reasons. There is only one reason to punish, the submissive/slave behavior or lack there of has displeased the Dominant, in an effort to express this displeasure and teach that the behavior is unacceptable and must be altered the Dominant must punish.Infidelity – such as playing with another Master without permission or infidelity in vanilla space is one of the unforgivable curses of a submissive.