Sub Expectations

Ownership of a sub is critical to the relationship. A submissive belongs to her Master by consent. The Master is willing to own her and the submissive is willing to obey Master. There are various things that Masters make subs do to make them feel owned. As the sub has submitted her will to yours, she cannot masterbate or otherwise engage in sex without your express consent, even if you’re not there. She is expected to be exclusive to you unless you instruct her to allow herself to be fucked by someone else or you instruct her in relation to another woman.  Master may use the sub sexually in a rough, selfish way whenever he feels  like it, interrupting whatever they were doing. (This includes on the phone when they are expected to continue the phone call normally).

Many subs expect an exclusive relationship and whilst this is occasionally the case, most Masters will have two or more long-term subs. If an exclusive relationship, this usually becomes the case over time and not at the start. Each sub is exclusive to Master. By convention, if a new sub is introduced, she will be introduced to other subs of Master as soon as reasonably practicable.  Masters should be completely open about their subs.

1. Have them wear collar and bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is reminder of submission.

2. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them display themselves whenever you come into the room…..legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, they are to be sure your view is unobstructed.

3. When they have broken a rule, talk to them as you punish….and make them speak in detail about why what they  did was wrong.

4. Make them take their knickers  off every day as soon as they enter your house and come up to you and show you their naked pussy *(unless the vanilla code applies- i.e. visitors that the sub has not met before, visitors that the sub has met and are not vanilla, children are present etc).

5. Have them contact you each day when they get up and when they get home and before bed. 

6. She eats on a plate on the floor unless she’s earned the right to sit at the table with you. If she has earned that right (i.e. no curious young-uns about) she does so naked (Crotchless tights and stockings/shoes permitted).

 7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.

8. Masters may choose a subs hairstyle.

9. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure they has an alternative title for you besides Master…..such as “Sir” etc. They can say this in a jokey manner – even accompanied with a salute, until the kids or vanilla friends leave. Sir with a salute in private is bratty.

10. Choose a food that they dislike and have them eat a small portion every day for a week.

11. They sleep on a dogs bed unless they have earned the right that day to sleep with Master.

12 They must crawl to basket or bed each night.

13. Master may choose their clothing each day.

14. If meeting Master, they must have all clothing approved in advance. Anything not approved in advance may be removed even in public. 

15. After punishment, sub must thank Master for caring enough to correct them.

16. Master may choose to get the sub tattooed (his choice of art and location) or have their labia pierced. If rings are in the Labia, Master may use padlocks too.

17. Master will be aware of, but push their limits.

18. Ask them each night what they did that day that you would not have approved of.  This gets them in the habit of being completely honest and also makes them conscious of the things they could do better each day. They may also be punished for not fessing up earlier. 

19. Sub mist learn exactly how Master  wants them to kneel and he will demand perfection.

20. A reward is allowing them to please you sexually.

21. Each night they are to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with their Master, and each night they do, they are to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank their Master for the privilege.

22. Have them keep a diary of their journey into submission which is inspected

23. Instruct them that they may never get themselves something to eat or drink in your presence without first asking you if you want something.

24. Instruct them that they may never get themselves something to eat or drink in your presence without first asking permission.

25. Some evenings, keep them on a leash and take them with you no matter what you do, even if you do not speak to them or include them in your activities.

26. When appropriate, they are to speak when spoken to only.

27. Subs must expect to, on occasion, be shared. This is to make them understand that they do what  Master wants. 

28. Subs must expect to witness Master amusing himself with other subs. Each sub’s task is to give Master pleasure. If a sub comes across Master with another sub, she will be expected immediately to strip naked (if not already) and stand nearby, legs apart, until invited to join in. 

29. Subs may not make eye contact with Master  without permission.

30. Subs must have them keep their body clean shaven at all times.

31. Subs are subject to  random inspections of their body to make sure they keep themselves to Master’s specifications.

32. Master may make subs wear a butt-plug under their clothes whenever they go out alone.

 

33. Make it their responsibility to put the sex toys away after play and punishment and to keep them clean and neat.

34. they should expect to be called a slut, fuckmeat etc, including when at munches etc.

35. Have them make a list of the 10 things that make them the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed. Work with them, having them do the things on the list (if possible), so that they conquer  those fears and hesitations.

36. Hand feed them like a small child on occasion in public.

37. Have them eat from a dog bowl regularly (all the better if you have a dog too) although have human and dog bowls for hygiene. 

38. For transgressions: make them wear a sign to the next public function naming their crime. 

39. They are not allowed to cryout in pain when punished. This nullifies the punishment. So if sub has 10 spanks coming and cries out on 8,9,and 10, then she has only received 7 spanks and has 3 more coming because 8,9,and 10 didn’t count due to crying out.

40. For transgressions: deny them play.

41. For transgressions: deny them orgasm.

42. For major transgressions: Command that they are to be silent for a week. They may not speak and will take whatever pain or pleasure you give as silently as possible.

43. Treat them like a pet in front of friends, making them present themselves, turn themselves, etc.

 

44. ocasionally have them wear nipple clamps under their clothing out to dinner.

45. For transgressions: stand them in the corner like a 3 year old. The coin test is good. 

46. Sometimes have then present themselves against the wall arse out for sex, but also using the coin. If they drop the coin,  then they must accept any punishment (including severe ones). This is because the only reason to drop the coin is to have lost concentration.

47. Always flog them after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

48. They should expect that Master will speak about them as if they were not present.

 

49. Have them be a camgirl/boy for a night.

50. Whenever possible (i.e. no young-uns about), have them sleep in a cage.

51. Buy them sexy or slutty clothes to your liking and take them out in it. 

 

52. Lead them with a loving fist in their hair.

53.Wake them whenever Master wakes feeling horny. They are expected to be instantly compliant and willing. 

54. Wake them each morning with an assigned task for the day and make sure it is done by day’s end.

55. On long trips, have them wear double dildo latex underwear. When out formally too.

 

56. Keep a list of their transgressions in a little book. Let them slip for a while, thinking you are not noticing, then one day bring out the book and have a day of atonement. Periodically review progress and punish if necessart

57. Tickle them just because you can.

58. Have them be perfectly still and quiet while you enjoy yourself with them. When they move or make a sound punish them then return to the pleasure.

59. Make them wear their  collar when you are home. You place it on them, having them kneel. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.

 

60. Take them and the dog to the park, both on leashes.

61. Make them shave their genitalia in front of your non-vanilla friends.

62. If non-vanilla friends are present, subs must pee in a potty in front of everyone like a baby. 

63. Subs must refer to themselves in the third party  “the slave” or if in the first person “this pet would like to ask Master if….” etc.

 

Master must ensure that they are safe at all times. When with you and when you are apart (to the best of your ability). Keep their vehicle in good working order, make sure they have emergency money and a cell phone to call for help if needed.