Taking the Plunge

So, I’ve decided to take the plunge and get in contact. What happens now?
Don’t expect to be in the Dungeon in the next day of so, some Masters will try this but it’s not something that I do. There’s a very good reason for this – I want to know what hits your buttons and what doesn’t and have time to plan your first time in the Dungeon because it should be a rewarding (if possibly painful) experience.

I’m a bit nervous – can I bring a friend?
Sure, We can discuss this. To some extent if you’re bringing someone of same mentality etc, we might be able to arrange this, but it may also cramp your freedom.
Some people suggest bringing friends and it’s surprising sometimes what friends people suggest.
In many cases the friend you have may not ring our bells…..and in order for things to gel, it takes the bells to ring on both sides of the Dungeon, not just yours.
Some Masters will take anyone, but we’re fussy! That’s because we’re good!! You’d be amazed how often we get approached by stunning looking subs that would like to bring their completely unattractive friend.
All we can guarantee that we’ll have a frank discussion about it.

I think I might be Bi (or I’m occasionally bi, but not regularly) – Can I bring a friend that I may want to play with?
Again, it’s a similar question to the above. If you’re wanting to try a bi-experience, we may be able to arrange this with Mistress Anguish or one of our other subs……and our experience is that you’ll get much more out of it if it’s not your friend.
In some cases we say no. In other cases we say yes. It’s about chemistry, so we’ve had same age, same build friends from University, we’ve had same age, same body-size friends from vanilla life and we’ve also said “No” where the other friend suggested is someone we’d struggle with.

I’m Bi – and I have a long-term bi-partner as well as my boyfriend/partner. Can both my bi-friend and I come along?
Again, it’s a similar question to the above. If you’re wanting to try a bi-experience, we may be able to arrange this with Mistress Anguish or one of our other subs……and our experience is that you’ll get much more out of it if it’s not your friend. In some cases, the existing relationship gets in the way but in other cases, it makes for a bit more fun. This is why we ask you to take our questionnaires and have lots of discussions with you before you come to see us.